Halloween Drink Recipes For Adults

HALLOWEEN PARTY IDEAS?
My mother and I are throwing a good sized Halloween party this year, 100-150 people,for adults only. By adults only i just mean that we dont want younger children to be there around people drinking and some potentially scary stuff.
I am looking for ideas for:
-catchy invitation wording
-creepy not cutesy decoration ideas
-halloween type music suggestions (i.e. the monster mash)
-cool theme recipes
-cool display ideas for the food/drink tables
any thing else i am forgetting let me know!!! thnx a bunch
also looking for good full figured women’s costume ideas —- no smart ass answers please
You could use decorations like fake cobwebs, light-up plastic skulls, plastic or rubber skeletons, rubber tarantulas, and realistic-looking monster dummies. Consider using smoke machines (if they’re available and you can afford them).
In addition to “Monster Mash,” you could play novelty songs like Warren Zevon’s “Werewolves of London,” as well as creepy music like Bloodrock’s “D.O.A.”; Pink Floyd’s “Careful WIth That Axe, Eugene”; and Mike Oldfield’s “Tubular Bells.”
For refreshments, you could serve stuff like cider; orange Kool-Aid; Dirt Cups; and candies, cupcakes, and regular cakes shaped like (or topped with decorations that look like) black cats, jack-o’-lanterns, eyeballs, etc. You can find Dirt Cup recipes in a variety of cookbooks and magazines and on a variety of websites, such as food.yahoo.com and www.kraftfoods.com (if you don’t already know how to make the cups). The other refreshments should be readily available from your local grocery store, bakery, or candy store.
Oh, yes — and you could send invitations to your guests in miniature coffins, or write them out on origami or pieces of construction paper shaped like black cats, bats, witches, pumpkins, etc.
Happy Halloween